Comments on: Cultural pressure to not be Buddhist http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/ My life as a father, Buddhist and Japanophile. Sat, 11 Jun 2011 01:53:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Michael Joyce http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-229 Michael Joyce Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:47:46 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-229 Gerald - good blog. i get it all the time brother. It's especially hard for me since religion and spirituality interests me soo much. I like to read and understand Islam, Judiasm, and the lot... however, (living in the "bible belt") I can help but get the "crazy eyes" from people when I mention something from the Koran or quote from Lao Tzu. Sadly, the most intolerant are the Christians (in my life). I believe in Jesus.. as I believe in the Buddha, but for some reason it's "wrong" to speak of them in the same paragraph. Compassion and love was introduced by the Buddha 500 years or so before Jesus came around. Most that I talk with, don't listen to me solely because (just my opinion) they feel that Jesus has the monopoly on wisdom (many don't even know that the Koran has even more writings of "Christ" than the Holy Bible does). Rigidity is a curse. To be open and embrace the compassionate nature within us should be the only "religion." There... I said it. (I think Jesus would have agreed with me too) Gerald – good blog. i get it all the time brother. It’s especially hard for me since religion and spirituality interests me soo much. I like to read and understand Islam, Judiasm, and the lot… however, (living in the “bible belt”) I can help but get the “crazy eyes” from people when I mention something from the Koran or quote from Lao Tzu. Sadly, the most intolerant are the Christians (in my life). I believe in Jesus.. as I believe in the Buddha, but for some reason it’s “wrong” to speak of them in the same paragraph. Compassion and love was introduced by the Buddha 500 years or so before Jesus came around. Most that I talk with, don’t listen to me solely because (just my opinion) they feel that Jesus has the monopoly on wisdom (many don’t even know that the Koran has even more writings of “Christ” than the Holy Bible does). Rigidity is a curse. To be open and embrace the compassionate nature within us should be the only “religion.” There… I said it. (I think Jesus would have agreed with me too)

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By: Gerald Ford http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-231 Gerald Ford Wed, 26 Mar 2008 16:33:54 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-231 Bah, no need to apologize Dave. I always enjoy your thoughts on subject. :) Bah, no need to apologize Dave. I always enjoy your thoughts on subject. :)

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By: Dave http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-230 Dave Wed, 26 Mar 2008 16:01:11 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-230 Sorry, I have been in the middle of a lot of writing lately so I guess my verbosity switch was still turned to the ON position... *blush* Sorry, I have been in the middle of a lot of writing lately so I guess my verbosity switch was still turned to the ON position… *blush*

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By: Gregor http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-228 Gregor Wed, 26 Mar 2008 02:04:31 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-228 Yes good comment Dave, I got a little intimidated by its sheer volume at first, lol. Yes good comment Dave, I got a little intimidated by its sheer volume at first, lol.

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By: Marcus http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-227 Marcus Wed, 26 Mar 2008 00:48:26 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-227 A long comment.......but a good one! :) "The fact is that some Buddhists live their daily life as polytheistic statue worshippers and view Buddhas and Bodhisattvas as deities. " True. And why not? Why shouldn't people do just that? Who is to say that hours of intense meditation is any better than the faith of a simple person praying to their Buddha? I'm sure that worshipping the Buddhas is just as sure a route to "generating empathy and bodhicitta" as any other. Thank you Dave. A long comment…….but a good one! :)

“The fact is that some Buddhists live their daily life as polytheistic statue worshippers and view Buddhas and Bodhisattvas as deities. ”

True. And why not? Why shouldn’t people do just that? Who is to say that hours of intense meditation is any better than the faith of a simple person praying to their Buddha?

I’m sure that worshipping the Buddhas is just as sure a route to “generating empathy and bodhicitta” as any other.

Thank you Dave.

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By: Gregor http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-226 Gregor Tue, 25 Mar 2008 22:56:47 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-226 Gerald, Good post. Dave, That's one hell of a long comment! Gerald,

Good post.

Dave,

That’s one hell of a long comment!

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By: Dave http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-219 Dave Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:02:48 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-219 Gerald Ford wrote: <em>Clearly, a lot of Western people believe, without looking into why Buddhism is the way it is, that Buddhism is just a bunch of asian [sic] idol worship, even people who grow up in the culture.</em> Let us recall, though, that Buddhism is not a single thing, not any single true teaching or practice. It is a movement based on the experience(s) of Siddhartha Gautama and the attempts of each generation inspired by Siddhartha to follow his example. Was his a singular experience or did it represent a class of experience or set of experiences, and what aspect of his life should we emulate if we think we can recreate what he experienced? Or are such expectation precisely the kind of trap he was advising us to avoid? Such movements inevitably become institutionalized to some degree for a variety of reasons, some worthwhile, others not. This isn't a bad thing, but the question still remains - what of the Buddha's experience should be remembered and honored and what is "just" baggage? The fact is that some Buddhists live their daily life as polytheistic statue worshippers and view Buddhas and Bodhisattvas as deities. Their sutras may suggest otherwise, their stated formal beliefs and the lessons taught by their monks and priests may say otherwise, but in everyday terms that is how they function, even if they don't recognize it or acknowledge it directly. This is the same as many people who, while officially stating their monotheistic beliefs and creeds from their Abrahamic religions, live in their secular societies as "practical atheists". That is, while they may profess to believe one thing, their daily actions and attitudes suggest something else. And in the Christian tradition in particular, one also struggles with the question of which of Jesus’ experiences and insights should be emulated and which are just a load of Samsonite. For example, Fr. Thomas Keating has suggested that the success or failure of each generation of Christians can be measured by how well they incorporate the contemplative dimension of the Gospels, that is, seeing the Ultimate Reality as immanent as well as transcendent, or knowing God as "Abba". So, if the point of a religion is ONLY to reproduce certain rituals, beliefs, liturgies, documents, etc, then we can judge a religion on how well it is staying true to these things and making them important enough to each generation to recreate them and pass them on to the next generation. If the point of a religion is to help people to overcome their false, limited selves and become open to their greater nature, then we can judge a religion on how many people it assists in undergoing this spiritual transformation. Yet in order to help people with this transformation, having shared sacred symbols, spaces, and practices is essential (some may think this is true only at the beginning of the journey, but while the nature of the usefulness of such things change, they still fulfill many roles - it attachment to such symbols as an externality of what we are seeking that makes them an impediment). So then the tension is over whether the representatives of a religion are using such shared sacred imagery to assist in the spiritual transformation of those who come into contact with the religion or whether they are trying to recreate such imagery for its own sake. This latter view can be understood in terms of judging whether someone is or isn’t a “true Buddhist” based on how that person dresses or talks, or the person does not follow a script of expectations for how the transformation should take place or it should “look like”. The same can be said of a “true Muslim”, or a “true Christian”, etc. Adherence to the right image takes precedence over inner transformation. Another way to say it is this – is Buddhism about producing “Buddhists”, or is it about liberation from the suffering caused by our delusions. Is Christianity about producing “Christians”, or is it about salvation from the confusion and pain of our estrangement from God (the Divine, Ultimate Reality, etc). As many have pointed out before, the Buddha wasn’t a Buddhist and Christ wasn’t a Christian, so when we consider what it means to be a member of a religious tradition, we should be asking, “What’s the point?” “What is this tradition trying to show me?” Gerald Ford wrote: <em>This is pretty disheartening to someone like me whose really trying to follow the path as best I can. The last thing someone needs to be reminded is that everyone around you follows a totally different religion and looks down on yours as something primitive or heathenish… Of course, when you really think about it deep down, what other people think of me and my beliefs doesn’t really matter </em> Why? Why are you, or I, or anyone else following this or that “path”? On the one hand, it is true that we must risk the disapproval of others to be true to our goals, but what are those goals? Is it strictly an offshoot of Western individualism – a kind of do-it-yourself-improvement hobby? Is it about finding a way to truly live which embraces all sentient beings? Something else? And if it, whatever it is, is a worthy goal, then in a way it does matter what others thing of us. That is, are we living in a way that demonstrates we really honor what we claim to follow and that we are sincere in our vision? As a student of Jon Kabat-Zinn reportedly once said, "When I was a Buddhist, it drove my parents and friends crazy, but when I am a Buddha, nobody is upset at all." This isn’t the same as conforming by truncating or abdicating our values or objectives. It is about examining what really matters and when we should take a stand or make a correction and when we should not. As for the reminder of what other people think, we can benefit from recognizing the pervasiveness of ignorance and suffering in the world, and in recalling our own failing, practice generating empathy and bodhicitta. Of course, I personally often have immense trouble doing this myself… ;o) Gerald Ford wrote: <em>It’s also disheartening to see a lot of people who grow up Buddhist leaving the religion because they don’t understand it. For them it’s ossified into dry rituals and worship, and its the fault of priests and parents who don’t educate their kids about the meaning of it all. However, I bet the parents likewise don’t get it either, and just follow along because their parents did too.</em> This may or may not be true, but it’s not always the fault of the priest or the parent. The same tradition isn’t always right for everyone at every time. Some people leave their birth religion and then “rediscover” it later in life. This gets back to what I was saying above about the goals of each religion (or each branch or congregation). Gerald Ford wrote: <em>Recently, while having a conversation with a Buddhist priest I know online, he told me that in the end Buddhism has to be practiced alone. We came into this world alone, and we’ll die alone. </em> This is somewhat true but also absolutely wrong. Gerald Ford wrote: Clearly, a lot of Western people believe, without looking into why Buddhism is the way it is, that Buddhism is just a bunch of asian [sic] idol worship, even people who grow up in the culture.

Let us recall, though, that Buddhism is not a single thing, not any single true teaching or practice. It is a movement based on the experience(s) of Siddhartha Gautama and the attempts of each generation inspired by Siddhartha to follow his example. Was his a singular experience or did it represent a class of experience or set of experiences, and what aspect of his life should we emulate if we think we can recreate what he experienced? Or are such expectation precisely the kind of trap he was advising us to avoid? Such movements inevitably become institutionalized to some degree for a variety of reasons, some worthwhile, others not. This isn’t a bad thing, but the question still remains – what of the Buddha’s experience should be remembered and honored and what is “just” baggage? The fact is that some Buddhists live their daily life as polytheistic statue worshippers and view Buddhas and Bodhisattvas as deities. Their sutras may suggest otherwise, their stated formal beliefs and the lessons taught by their monks and priests may say otherwise, but in everyday terms that is how they function, even if they don’t recognize it or acknowledge it directly.

This is the same as many people who, while officially stating their monotheistic beliefs and creeds from their Abrahamic religions, live in their secular societies as “practical atheists”. That is, while they may profess to believe one thing, their daily actions and attitudes suggest something else. And in the Christian tradition in particular, one also struggles with the question of which of Jesus’ experiences and insights should be emulated and which are just a load of Samsonite. For example, Fr. Thomas Keating has suggested that the success or failure of each generation of Christians can be measured by how well they incorporate the contemplative dimension of the Gospels, that is, seeing the Ultimate Reality as immanent as well as transcendent, or knowing God as “Abba”.

So, if the point of a religion is ONLY to reproduce certain rituals, beliefs, liturgies, documents, etc, then we can judge a religion on how well it is staying true to these things and making them important enough to each generation to recreate them and pass them on to the next generation. If the point of a religion is to help people to overcome their false, limited selves and become open to their greater nature, then we can judge a religion on how many people it assists in undergoing this spiritual transformation. Yet in order to help people with this transformation, having shared sacred symbols, spaces, and practices is essential (some may think this is true only at the beginning of the journey, but while the nature of the usefulness of such things change, they still fulfill many roles – it attachment to such symbols as an externality of what we are seeking that makes them an impediment). So then the tension is over whether the representatives of a religion are using such shared sacred imagery to assist in the spiritual transformation of those who come into contact with the religion or whether they are trying to recreate such imagery for its own sake.

This latter view can be understood in terms of judging whether someone is or isn’t a “true Buddhist” based on how that person dresses or talks, or the person does not follow a script of expectations for how the transformation should take place or it should “look like”. The same can be said of a “true Muslim”, or a “true Christian”, etc. Adherence to the right image takes precedence over inner transformation. Another way to say it is this – is Buddhism about producing “Buddhists”, or is it about liberation from the suffering caused by our delusions. Is Christianity about producing “Christians”, or is it about salvation from the confusion and pain of our estrangement from God (the Divine, Ultimate Reality, etc). As many have pointed out before, the Buddha wasn’t a Buddhist and Christ wasn’t a Christian, so when we consider what it means to be a member of a religious tradition, we should be asking, “What’s the point?” “What is this tradition trying to show me?”

Gerald Ford wrote: This is pretty disheartening to someone like me whose really trying to follow the path as best I can. The last thing someone needs to be reminded is that everyone around you follows a totally different religion and looks down on yours as something primitive or heathenish…

Of course, when you really think about it deep down, what other people think of me and my beliefs doesn’t really matter

Why? Why are you, or I, or anyone else following this or that “path”? On the one hand, it is true that we must risk the disapproval of others to be true to our goals, but what are those goals? Is it strictly an offshoot of Western individualism – a kind of do-it-yourself-improvement hobby? Is it about finding a way to truly live which embraces all sentient beings? Something else? And if it, whatever it is, is a worthy goal, then in a way it does matter what others thing of us. That is, are we living in a way that demonstrates we really honor what we claim to follow and that we are sincere in our vision? As a student of Jon Kabat-Zinn reportedly once said, “When I was a Buddhist, it drove my parents and friends crazy, but when I am a Buddha, nobody is upset at all.” This isn’t the same as conforming by truncating or abdicating our values or objectives. It is about examining what really matters and when we should take a stand or make a correction and when we should not.

As for the reminder of what other people think, we can benefit from recognizing the pervasiveness of ignorance and suffering in the world, and in recalling our own failing, practice generating empathy and bodhicitta. Of course, I personally often have immense trouble doing this myself… ;o)

Gerald Ford wrote: It’s also disheartening to see a lot of people who grow up Buddhist leaving the religion because they don’t understand it. For them it’s ossified into dry rituals and worship, and its the fault of priests and parents who don’t educate their kids about the meaning of it all. However, I bet the parents likewise don’t get it either, and just follow along because their parents did too.

This may or may not be true, but it’s not always the fault of the priest or the parent. The same tradition isn’t always right for everyone at every time. Some people leave their birth religion and then “rediscover” it later in life. This gets back to what I was saying above about the goals of each religion (or each branch or congregation).

Gerald Ford wrote: Recently, while having a conversation with a Buddhist priest I know online, he told me that in the end Buddhism has to be practiced alone. We came into this world alone, and we’ll die alone.

This is somewhat true but also absolutely wrong.

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By: Gerald Ford http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-220 Gerald Ford Tue, 25 Mar 2008 16:11:15 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-220 Jeannie: Yeah, I am glad we ditched the whole Beliefnet scene. That place will make you old quick. :p I visit there now and then and it hasn't changed one bit (other than new forum style). Marcus: No worries at all. :) I am actually happy to see so much discussion lately. Beats Buddhist forums any day. Erg: We also need to talk about that mess you left behind the couch.... ;) Jeannie: Yeah, I am glad we ditched the whole Beliefnet scene. That place will make you old quick. :p I visit there now and then and it hasn’t changed one bit (other than new forum style).

Marcus: No worries at all. :) I am actually happy to see so much discussion lately. Beats Buddhist forums any day.

Erg: We also need to talk about that mess you left behind the couch…. ;)

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By: Erg http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-221 Erg Tue, 25 Mar 2008 15:01:07 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-221 Its cool marcus. Believe me, I can get very catty in discussion forums, its not a unrealistic assumptions. I just try not to claw gerald's drapes since I am a guest here ;) Its cool marcus. Believe me, I can get very catty in discussion forums, its not a unrealistic assumptions. I just try not to claw gerald’s drapes since I am a guest here ;)

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By: Marcus http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2008/03/24/cultural-pressure-to-not-be-buddhist/#comment-222 Marcus Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:46:48 +0000 http://level8.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-222 Erg: Sorry. I over-reacted to something that wasn't even there. (Back to Buddhist basics for me!). I apologise. Silly of me to treat the wonderful L8 as if it were a catty discussion forum! So sorry to Gerald too. Wishing all Peace and Happiness, Marcus Erg: Sorry. I over-reacted to something that wasn’t even there. (Back to Buddhist basics for me!). I apologise. Silly of me to treat the wonderful L8 as if it were a catty discussion forum! So sorry to Gerald too.

Wishing all Peace and Happiness,

Marcus

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