Comments on: Why Buddhism for me: a response to a guest’s question http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/ My life as a father, Buddhist and Japanophile. Sat, 11 Jun 2011 01:53:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Doug http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2654 Doug Thu, 07 May 2009 15:07:23 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2654 <strong>Stephen</strong>: Thanks for the kind words. For some reason my spam filter side-lined your post, so I approved it late. I apologize for that. :) <strong>Tornado</strong>: I am not real big on the FSM idea. It's kind of childish to me, but I agree with you that it points out the childish, immature approach many people take with religion. It's a response to the "my religious views [or lack thereof] are better than your religious views" behavior that so many, including Buddhists and Atheists, adhere to in their lives. :-/ <strong>Psychic Nomad</strong>: It's tricky because people can't seem to agree on what defines a religion and what doesn't. I just kind of gave up on it myself. :) Stephen: Thanks for the kind words. For some reason my spam filter side-lined your post, so I approved it late. I apologize for that. :)

Tornado: I am not real big on the FSM idea. It’s kind of childish to me, but I agree with you that it points out the childish, immature approach many people take with religion. It’s a response to the “my religious views [or lack thereof] are better than your religious views” behavior that so many, including Buddhists and Atheists, adhere to in their lives. :-/

Psychic Nomad: It’s tricky because people can’t seem to agree on what defines a religion and what doesn’t. I just kind of gave up on it myself. :)

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By: psychic nomad http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2644 psychic nomad Tue, 05 May 2009 20:05:09 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2644 <i>It seems to me that is not really a religion as such. It seems more like moral guidance, and a “Guide to being alive”, and an interesting philosophy all rolled into one.</i> Isn't that what a religion <i>is</i>? That's what I've always looked for in a religion. I feel like a lot of people have a pre-defined idea of "religion" as being dogmatic, being concerned with "flying spaghetti monsters", etc. When they encounter religion without bombast and dogma, they immediately say "Why, this isn't religion at all!" It seems to me that is not really a religion as such. It seems more like moral guidance, and a “Guide to being alive”, and an interesting philosophy all rolled into one.

Isn’t that what a religion is? That’s what I’ve always looked for in a religion.

I feel like a lot of people have a pre-defined idea of “religion” as being dogmatic, being concerned with “flying spaghetti monsters”, etc. When they encounter religion without bombast and dogma, they immediately say “Why, this isn’t religion at all!”

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By: Tornadoes28 http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2642 Tornadoes28 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:24:48 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2642 I know the story of The Flying Spaghetti Monster. It basically says that anybody can say that their religion is the truth and all others are false. The story points out the absurdity of this. The absurdity of those for example who state that if you don't believe in Jesus you will burn in hell. Well, anybody can say they belong to any religion and say they worship any god for example, the Flying Spaghetti Monster god and state that the Flying Spaghetti Monster is the one true god and those that don't believe in the Flying Spaghetti Monster will burn in hell. I feel all religions were created for a reason and there is no "wrong" religion. For those that believe in Buddhism it is the correct religion for them just as for those that believe in Christianity being the correct religion for them. I know the story of The Flying Spaghetti Monster. It basically says that anybody can say that their religion is the truth and all others are false. The story points out the absurdity of this. The absurdity of those for example who state that if you don’t believe in Jesus you will burn in hell. Well, anybody can say they belong to any religion and say they worship any god for example, the Flying Spaghetti Monster god and state that the Flying Spaghetti Monster is the one true god and those that don’t believe in the Flying Spaghetti Monster will burn in hell.

I feel all religions were created for a reason and there is no “wrong” religion. For those that believe in Buddhism it is the correct religion for them just as for those that believe in Christianity being the correct religion for them.

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By: Stephen http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2639 Stephen Mon, 04 May 2009 00:44:24 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2639 Namu Amida Bu Hands together, Thanks Doug, great post! Nice to get know you a bit better, and a wonderfull story of a life still being written. You are surely going to be a beautiful lotus, best wishes to you and your family, Stephen Namu Amida Namu Amida Butsu Amida Butsu Namu Amida Bu
Hands together,
Thanks Doug, great post! Nice to get know you a bit better, and a wonderfull story of a life still being written. You are surely going to be a beautiful lotus,
best wishes to you and your family,
Stephen

Namu Amida
Namu Amida Butsu
Amida Butsu

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By: Doug http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2637 Doug Sun, 03 May 2009 19:20:24 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2637 Adding to what Dougsamu mentioned, here is another nice essay about coming to grips with the idea of rebirth: http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/bodhi/bps-essay_46.html In any case, Buddhism doesn't exact demands that you follow beliefs A, B and C before you can be a Buddhist. To become a Buddhist, one just intentionally takes refuge in the Buddha, Dharma (teachiings) and Sangha (community). The rest is taken at face value for the time being, and as one follows the path, they investigate things like karma, rebirth and such to see if they really pan out. As I stated in the blog post, the Buddha taught that these thiings could actually be observed with training and such. As for prayer, prayer in Buddhism is a varied subject. People pray for all kinds of things. Some folks pray to the Buddha for things like wealth and happiness, while others pray for the welfare of others, and still others pray for wisdom and strength to follow the path. The act of prayer, in and of itself, is not so important as one's intentions. Going back to my experience at Chion-in, to clarify, what the monk was actually doing was reciting a Buddhist text. We do this very often in Buddhism, and dedicate any good karma for the act to benefit all sentient beings (people, animals, whatever else exists in the Universe). Buddhism doesn't limit itself to humans only. We often use the term "all sentient beings" to denote all possible beings. The Metta Sutta I had posted in your blog illuded to this, but it's an important thiing to bear in mind. All living things, including aliens if they exist, are embraced by the Dharma and assisted to reach liberation. So Buddhism is open to the idea of other lifeforms. In classical Buddhism, they did borrow beliefs in Hindu gods and such, but the gods mostly play a kind of supporting role (to defend Buddhism, etc) but whether they actually exist or not doesn't really matter. It doesn't affect a whole lot in the day to day practice. Read the link I had in the post about Vajrayana Buddhism for more info. Good luck, Adding to what Dougsamu mentioned, here is another nice essay about coming to grips with the idea of rebirth:

http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/bodhi/bps-essay_46.html

In any case, Buddhism doesn’t exact demands that you follow beliefs A, B and C before you can be a Buddhist. To become a Buddhist, one just intentionally takes refuge in the Buddha, Dharma (teachiings) and Sangha (community). The rest is taken at face value for the time being, and as one follows the path, they investigate things like karma, rebirth and such to see if they really pan out. As I stated in the blog post, the Buddha taught that these thiings could actually be observed with training and such.

As for prayer, prayer in Buddhism is a varied subject. People pray for all kinds of things. Some folks pray to the Buddha for things like wealth and happiness, while others pray for the welfare of others, and still others pray for wisdom and strength to follow the path. The act of prayer, in and of itself, is not so important as one’s intentions. Going back to my experience at Chion-in, to clarify, what the monk was actually doing was reciting a Buddhist text. We do this very often in Buddhism, and dedicate any good karma for the act to benefit all sentient beings (people, animals, whatever else exists in the Universe).

Buddhism doesn’t limit itself to humans only. We often use the term “all sentient beings” to denote all possible beings. The Metta Sutta I had posted in your blog illuded to this, but it’s an important thiing to bear in mind. All living things, including aliens if they exist, are embraced by the Dharma and assisted to reach liberation. So Buddhism is open to the idea of other lifeforms. In classical Buddhism, they did borrow beliefs in Hindu gods and such, but the gods mostly play a kind of supporting role (to defend Buddhism, etc) but whether they actually exist or not doesn’t really matter. It doesn’t affect a whole lot in the day to day practice. Read the link I had in the post about Vajrayana Buddhism for more info.

Good luck,

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By: dougrogers http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2636 dougrogers Sun, 03 May 2009 15:40:36 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2636 Sling; an exhaustive discussion of reincarnation at Tricycle: http://community.tricycle.com/forum/topics/the-great-debate-reincarnation?x=1&id=2758483%3ATopic%3A48405&page=1#comments Sling; an exhaustive discussion of reincarnation at Tricycle:

http://community.tricycle.com/forum/topics/the-great-debate-reincarnation?x=1&id=2758483%3ATopic%3A48405&page=1#comments

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By: slingword http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2635 slingword Sun, 03 May 2009 14:27:02 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2635 I reread the article again, and on second thought, it certainly is a religion by my definition. I was looking more at the philosophy part when I replied. There are claims of metaphysical phenomenon (reincarnation, and a reference to a monk praying to a sculpture (which I assume represented a conscious being?)). So I should have asked this: Is part of your belief structure include metaphysical events, beings, or items? If so, why do you choose to believe in things which are pure speculation? Thanks once again, and I still like a lot of the ideas here. Slingword I reread the article again, and on second thought, it certainly is a religion by my definition. I was looking more at the philosophy part when I replied.

There are claims of metaphysical phenomenon (reincarnation, and a reference to a monk praying to a sculpture (which I assume represented a conscious being?)).

So I should have asked this:
Is part of your belief structure include metaphysical events, beings, or items?

If so, why do you choose to believe in things which are pure speculation?

Thanks once again, and I still like a lot of the ideas here.
Slingword

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By: slingword http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2634 slingword Sun, 03 May 2009 08:46:07 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2634 Doug, Damn, nice article. I must agree that you (in the Buddhist sense, as well as the Doug sense) have something special going. It seems to me that is not really a religion as such. It seems more like moral guidance, and a "Guide to being alive", and an interesting philosophy all rolled into one. I especially like the fact that there is no "worship me or else" character in there. In fact, I don't see any Flying Spaghetti Monster in there at all, which is why it appears to me to not be a religion really. I like that. My original post was more meant to bring attention to where on the spectrum of "totally objective to totally subjective" our beliefs are. When people claim there is a Flying Spaghetti Monster (http://www.flyingspaghettimonster.com/) they best come up with something pretty solid to back that up with. You make no such claims, so I don't require any dramatic proof. You (Buddhists and you) are just saying something more like: "Look, here is a way to live, a way of thinking about life, and some ways that others have lived that worked out pretty well. Think about this" (Damn, I hope I have this right.....) In that regard, I have no problem, and a lot of admiration! All my best, and of all the replies to my blog, I have loved yours the most, Slingword PS Please let me know if I got the basics and executive summary right. I'm no expert here in Buddha land. Doug,
Damn, nice article.
I must agree that you (in the Buddhist sense, as well as the Doug sense) have something special going. It seems to me that is not really a religion as such. It seems more like moral guidance, and a “Guide to being alive”, and an interesting philosophy all rolled into one.
I especially like the fact that there is no “worship me or else” character in there. In fact, I don’t see any Flying Spaghetti Monster in there at all, which is why it appears to me to not be a religion really.
I like that.

My original post was more meant to bring attention to where on the spectrum of “totally objective to totally subjective” our beliefs are. When people claim there is a Flying Spaghetti Monster (http://www.flyingspaghettimonster.com/) they best come up with something pretty solid to back that up with.

You make no such claims, so I don’t require any dramatic proof.

You (Buddhists and you) are just saying something more like: “Look, here is a way to live, a way of thinking about life, and some ways that others have lived that worked out pretty well. Think about this”
(Damn, I hope I have this right…..)

In that regard, I have no problem, and a lot of admiration!

All my best, and of all the replies to my blog, I have loved yours the most,
Slingword

PS Please let me know if I got the basics and executive summary right. I’m no expert here in Buddha land.

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By: dougrogers http://japanlifeandreligion.com/2009/05/02/why-buddhism-for-me-a-response-to-a-guests-question/#comment-2632 dougrogers Sat, 02 May 2009 22:44:55 +0000 http://nihonshukyo.wordpress.com/?p=3838#comment-2632 Nice post and a good answer. I would also like to emphasize the Kalama Sutra as a guide to Truth. Yep, there's only one, but that doesn't exclude that there are many ways to get there. A circle can't be rounder. Even a compass-drawn one is imperfect on some level. Is there ever a perfect circle? Only the Platonic? Anything we can 'make' is only a model, never the real thing. So, how can we ever achieve the perfect circle? As Doug says, basically, just get on with living. Nice post and a good answer.

I would also like to emphasize the Kalama Sutra as a guide to Truth. Yep, there’s only one, but that doesn’t exclude that there are many ways to get there.

A circle can’t be rounder. Even a compass-drawn one is imperfect on some level. Is there ever a perfect circle? Only the Platonic? Anything we can ‘make’ is only a model, never the real thing. So, how can we ever achieve the perfect circle?

As Doug says, basically, just get on with living.

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