Do it or quit complaining
Posted: May 2, 2010 | Author: Doug | Filed under: Buddhism, Japanese, Jodo Shinshu, Language, Zen | 3 Comments »Recently while re-reading The Buddha’s Wish for the World, by Rev. Koshin Otani, head of the Nishi Honganji sect of Jodo Shinshu, he quoted from a famous and respected daimyo in the Edo Period, named Uesugi Harunori (a.k.a. Uesugi Yozan):
If you put your mind to it, you can do it;
If you do not, you cannot — that is true for all things.
When something cannot be done, you are the one to blame
For not putting your heart into it.
I like this quote a lot, despite the macho, tough-guy sound toward the end because in a Buddhist context this makes sense.
If you don’t try, you cannot accomplish something. Whether this be meditation, studying Japanese, whatever, you simply have to put your mind to it, and have confidence that in the long-run your efforts will not be in vain. The Buddha states in the texts that even an ocean can be emptied with a bucket given enough time. The key lies in sense of confidence that regardless of time, one’s actions will still have an effect, even if it’s not obvious at first.
But another key to this is the need to be singularly focused on something. If you care about something enough, you can get it done, but if you treat something as a side-project you may only have middling success. So, either you have to de-prioritize other things in life, or just know your limits. Speaking from experience, this is something I still need to learn, as I tend to scatter myself across many things, and sometimes it’s good to step back and evaluate and prioritize what matters in life and go straight for it.
Namu Amida Butsu
It reminds me of
Fozzy BearYoda. “Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try.”mmm, While not trying is the surest way to fail, success is by no means guaranteed just by trying. You have to have some awareness of your talents, limitations and the scope of the task. I mean where are you going to put all that water from the ocean and just how many lifetimes do you have to spare and what exactly will you have achieved?
(and yet small drops of water wear down mountains, eventually)
Maybe you also have to realistically measure for yourself what success is.
But success isn’t everything, the journey itself changes you and is an achievement.
Interesting post, thanks. (I too am not great in allocating time and energy to areas of my life)
This reminds me of an expression in my family’s language that (roughly) translates along the lines of, “What you really want is what you actually do.” It has a slightly different force than the daimyo’s thoughts, but it points to a fundamental quality of our human nature, that we tend to prefer the status quo, even while we complain that we’d rather things be otherwise (ourselves included). Lots of people say that they wish they could learn another language. But how many people want it enough to change their lives to do so?
Great posting (and comments too).